06 March 2015

Leadership Exercises


March 5th, 2015
Written by Maya-Nora Said

Jim welcomed us to MELA and 
made us understand a new way of leadership and what it means to our future. He made us realize that giving back is not about receiving first, so the leaders can repeatedly re-discover themselves and others.

Jim explaining how to take leadership to the next level

Successful vision exercise or stopping a taxi.. Not quit sure



























Bill made us understand ourselves and others, the differences between an introvert and an extrovert. He also explained that if all leaders understood the differences of others they could be more effective.




Brain. Is. Loading. What is the nature of the brain?















After wishing Samer a happy birthday, all the participants introduced one another, what great entertainment!!

Samer's thank you dance after we sang happy birthday
Mohammad and Abdulazeez or Abdulazeez and Mohammad
Look, there goes our memory
Samer's birthday cake.















































Last but not least, Samer's birthday cake.













Written by Maya-Nora Saaid

05 March 2015

Getting to Know One Another

March 4th, 2015
Written by Maya-Nora Said

Today is the day we all have been looking forward to. It is the start of a new beginning, the official first day of the sixth regional leadership workshop of the Academy. Participants arrived throughout the day at the beautiful Jumeirah Messilah Beach Hotel in Kuwait.

Samer presenting to the facilitators 













Taking notes of Samer's presentation. It felt like an FBI meeting




First time meeting everyone at dinner



















It was the first day of the academy and we have just met and the connection of culture, leadership, and thirst for knowledge brought us all together.

Written by Maya-Nora Saaid

Finishing Touches in High Tech Kuwait

Yesterday was a busy and productive day behind the scenes of MELA 6. Facilitators were perfecting their coaching skills and preparing a new start for an endless journey before the arrival of the participants.

From left to right: Feruza, Micheal, Khudabuksh, and Yasmin (facilitators)

















Riyadh taking notes (facilitator)


Samer, Amer,  a very nice and helpful hotel staff member, and Yazan in action

Binders waiting on the participants













MELA 6 banner



















It was a long day full of valuable lessons and the one thing we learned today was when your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a true leader. Learning never gets old school.

Written by Maya-Nora Saaid

03 March 2015

Let's start: MELA 6


On the way to Kuwait

March 5, 2015 is the day that MELA 6 is starting. That means that tomorrow all the participants are taking notes from Bill Starnes, Micheal Kouly, Jim Crupi, and many more motivational speakers in Kuwait. MELA 6 takes place at the 
Jumeirah Messilah Beach Hotel & Spa. Before we start blogging about the sixth Leadership Academy, let's discuss MELA.

A sneak peak of the Jumeirah Messilah Beach Hotel & Spa


On the website (
http://melanetwork.org), MELA is described as an annual leadership program that is a ten day intensive experiential program. It is not a lecture course with a lot of “chalk-and-talk.” MELA is an interactive learning environment, focusing on practical and instantaneous lessons. Participants will engage with internationally recognized business innovators, instructors, and public figures.

We hear you thinking: "what will the participants learn at MELA 6?"
MELA will enhance the specialties of each leader. All speakers have a different yet effective approach. Topics like passion to improve, integrity, open-mildness to new possibilities, grace under pressure, and belief in oneself will be discussed. There are learning group sessions each day at the leadership academy and all participants have to solve issues and get to know one another.



MELA is not only learning from people that have experience, but also learning from themselves and all the participants. It is an experience no one can teach you, an experience that will last forever. After graduating from MELA, these participants will stand on the other side and lead many people in their personal and private life.

Things are still in the air and we are all curious what the next 10 days will bring.


Written by Maya-Nora Saaid

15 March 2014

Expect the Unexpected


MELA 5, DAY TEN: 15 MARCH 2014



The anonymous author of this doodle, spotted on a jotting pad during the final day of our workshop, is the unsung philosopher of MELA: the Arab Confucius who has penetrated the essence of the program. For, as John King said on the very first morning of MELA 5, the amount of learning achieved is proportional to one's openness to be surprised. 


Samira, Elham and Heba say jibn  cheese!

Since then, the surprises have been coming thick and fast. How many of us could foresee so many transformative leadership experiences crashing over our heads, wave after wave, during a mere week and a half? Who expected that so many of the strangers in the room on Day 1 would become necessary people to us – lifelong friends and leadership peers – by Day 10?  

From the vantage point of 6 March, who would have believed that many of us would part from our fellow "Melos" tomorrow with sighs and separation anxiety? Who would have expected we could return to our homes with withdrawal symptoms and hybrid feelings of sweet sorrow? But we are accustomed by now to expect the unexpected from MELA. Today as the end draws near, we are prepared for a welter of mixed emotions.



Victor Antonio kicks off with the theme "The Logic of Success," peppering his talk with insights from psychology, brain science, sociology and marketing. As a special bonus, he offers an analysis of Michael Kouly's blockbuster session yesterday evening. As an illustration of excellence, Victor endeavors to decipher what made Michael's presentation so powerful. Venturing where no man has dared to venture before, Victor seeks to unlock the labyrinths of the Kouly Kode.














There was a lot here that Michael himself didn't know. Deconstructed into its elements, the mysteries of the Kouly Kode are thrillingly revealed.



The goodbyes are beginning, and with them a renewed desire to capture and preserve these elusive, fugitive moments together. Noor and Mashael pose with the MELA maestro. 



Mohannad and Ginny, sporting her Palestinian colors.



Jassim and Nahla pretend to be unmoved by the emotions washing around them. But we know they are posing.




Yes, today is Saturday, and yes, there is going to be a party tonight. But these guys have stepped out of their time machine at the wrong stop (see "MELA 5, Day Nine"). Somebody, please send them home to 1977.


Said Al Shanfari and Amer Al Fadhil (MELA 4) invite their new compeers to the MELA 2014 Summit in Oman in October.



On behalf of the MELA 5 members, Ghareb presents Jim a token of their appreciation for all he and the team have done to touch and change their lives. The Arabian (White) oryx is the national animal of Qatar.



The Arabian Gold oryx is the newly-minted national animal of MELA.




Jim communicates our thanks to Rob Sherwin (General Manager, Corporate Affairs, Qatar Shell) for his company's support for this wonderful MELA 5 program.



The audience rises to its feet in acknowledgement of MELA Program Director Samer Ebbini, who guided every aspect of the program, kept his eye on the goal, covered defense, rallied the mid-field, and set up the scoring combinations from the wings. Winner of the MELA 2014 Most Valuable Player Award.




The Board of Directors is on hand to welcome the participants into the post-Academy world.



GRADUATION AND INDUCTION CEREMONIES

Participants are awarded a certificate of completion for the MELA Academy, and are officially inducted as members into MELA as a regional network organization.




Regional Director Adam Albion welcomes Siham to the stage.



Abdelrahman's batteries never go flat.



Arwa made her probing, penetrating presence felt in every one of the sessions.



Asim's strength and intelligent leadership were an inspiration to us all.



Farid and Michael: birds of a feather.



Majid's charismatic personality brought a splash of color to MELA...



...while Mounib's splashy charisma brought a colorful personality to MELA!




Najla made a big splash in Doha.




Mohammad's fans are wild over his poetry – and his giant heart.



When we talk about getting the right people on the bus, we are talking about Raja.



Forget about buses. When we think about getting the right people on board a lifeboat in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, we are talking about Salah. (How Salah feels about joining us on board a lifeboat thousands of miles from land is a separate matter.)



Samira is the kind of leader on whom you know you can rely never to compromise on her principles or values.




We celebrate and recognize with gratitude the program's shepherd and guiding light, Jim Crupi.






Without Jim, there would be no MELA.








Without Faye, there would be no Jim.










Hail to the staff!





Hail MELA 5!